I Just Don't Understand...

I understand some of the things about men and women. I understand some of the things about men and women within a given context or situation. I even understand some of the things about men and women based on the simple fact that they are men and women. BUT...some things I just don't get. With that said...


1. Why do a lot (not all) of the nice, decent, level-headed females (or if you're a female, men) gotta be unattractive?

Why do I have feel shallow 'cause you're ugly? People tell me I'm a cool, nice person, too, but damn...I keep myself in shape and looking decent (as much as I can), I try to dress nice when necessary...What? I'm supposed to ignore that THAT person is unattractive? Nah...F that...people try that, wake up and roll over to a person they don't find attractive and file for divorce. I'm not sayin Halle Berry, Beyonce attractive. Hell...I'm not sayin 2nd-hottest-girl-in-the-party attractive. That's God given...you can't hold people accountable for that. I'm just saying...stay in shape and keep yourself up. If it's gonna be either unattractive and level headed or attractive and dumb/uninteresting/stuck up, I might as well go ahead a jump off a got damned bridge. I don't understand.

2. Why do people try to get with a person, then later on try that person's friend?

This aint Tip Drill dammit! That. mess is disgusting. I don't know about y'all, but me and my friends don't pass around females (Unless one of them are holding out information...hmmm...). I would never be involved with a female that my friend dated, was with or had sex with. If they were just talkin and nothin happened...or it didn't have a chance...maybe. Maybe. But, I can't be sittin at a cookout with my homeboy and my lady, thinking..."I wonder if she gave him head like she gave me...did she use the ice? I bet he got the ice.." For all I know, she might've gave him head while I went to get more ice (ppl ain't never got enough ice at a cookout). Dudes...ladies...that ain't cool and I don't understand.

3. Creepin. I never understood it.

If you gotta hide who you're messing with...9 times out of 10, you shouldn't be doin it. If you've been with enough females/dudes whereas you have to hide who you're messing with, you might be a ho...and at that point, people already know you're a ho. Stop creepin like a ninja. Be a proud ho. Word will get around anyway and ppl talk. I don't go around kissing and telling, but I'm a grown ass man and I accept anything I've done. I refuse to be creepin around like I got somethin to hide.

4. Modeling is not a skill. Stop it.

I know there's a recession. I know. But, I'm saying...the other day, I asked this one lady, "What do you do best?" And she replied "I model." Now, if walking up and down a catwalk is the BEST thing you do, you ain't doin ____. Everyone is rapping nowdays, too. BUT...At least, rapping and making beats are skills. It takes time to become good at those things. Everybody, might be doing it, but everybody can't do it well. With modeling, either you have it or you don't. Its not a skill. And don't tell me that the walking is a skill. My three-year-old little cousin can emulate that mess.

And lastly...

5. Cheating.

If you feel like you need to go outside your relationship for satisfaction, then end it. Plain and simple. Too much pain results from selfishness and immaturity and then next person that comes along usually has to deal with a lot of trouble that he/she didn't cause. I don't understand.



...Then again, maybe I'm not supposed to understand any of this. I don't know.